And when you do this, you are only risking yourself to disappointments.So, always remember that not everyone you meet will have all the traits you want, but they have good qualities that will surely make you happy in the long run.
You don’t like his perfume and you find his clothes awkward and his nails dirty, but he's never mean to you, instead he treats you like the most important person in the world.
You feel depressed and you just want someone to be there for you.
Ever heard of the saying “Don’t judge the book by its cover”?
Instead of backing off because you initially found the person unattractive, give yourself a chance to get to know the person better.
Can it really be as tough for a man as for a woman?
After all, we all know that men - superficial creatures that they are - judge a woman on her looks.
It's a speed-dating night, and Stan has ten minutes to woo and charm each of the ten women. For the past two years, Stan has been writing a hugely popular blog about his experiences looking for love.
It has now been published as a book, Bete de Jour - the title a self-deprecating play on words on the anonymous call-girl blogger Belle de Jour.
And it's struck a chord with the millions of other men who believe they are also too ugly to find love.